A short guide to get a Paper server running for you and your friends. Uses free software only. Commands are for Ubuntu or Debian.

RAM guide

Players RAM for the server Notes
1-5 3-4 GB Any 4-core CPU from the last 10 years
5-15 6-8 GB Pre-generate the world; limit view distance
15+ 8-12 GB Single-core speed matters most

Install

sudo apt update && sudo apt install -y openjdk-21-jre-headless tmux sudo useradd -r -m -d /srv/mc -s /bin/bash mc sudo -u mc mkdir -p /srv/mc/server /srv/mc/backups # download the Paper jar for your version from papermc.io/downloads as /srv/mc/server/paper.jar echo "eula=true" | sudo -u mc tee /srv/mc/server/eula.txt 

Check which Java version your Minecraft version needs on the Paper download page.

Start script (/srv/mc/start.sh)

#!/bin/bash cd /srv/mc/server exec java -Xms4G -Xmx4G -XX:+UseG1GC -XX:+ParallelRefProcEnabled \ -XX:MaxGCPauseMillis=200 -XX:+DisableExplicitGC -XX:+AlwaysPreTouch \ -jar paper.jar --nogui 

Leave 1-2 GB of RAM for the operating system.

Let friends connect safely

Use Tailscale instead of opening ports: install it on the server and on each friend's PC, share the server machine, and have them join with the Tailscale IP and port 25565. If you forward port 25565 on your router instead, keep the whitelist on and keep Paper updated. Never forward SSH or RCON.

Must-have settings

white-list=true, enforce-whitelist=true, online-mode=true, view-distance=8, simulation-distance=6.

Want the rest?

The full Minecraft Home Server Runbook adds the systemd service, backup script with retention, plugin safety, a troubleshooting table and a security checklist: https://spectre5.gumroad.com/l/nyfzyup ($6)

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